Affect the things you have control of

I had to write this thought down before I forget. Often times when a relationship ends we rush to tell ourselves "we deserve better." well, its not like better will instantly appear at our doorsteps. Instead, I like to think that he or she doesn't deserve better than who they are and as long as we stick around and continue to be a part of their lives, we are giving them just that. Control the things you can and don't allow someone to have better than they are when they can't give that to you. Stay strong and don't look back. It will turn into an "I WIN." So there.